A Sure Way To Break A Spell

By Arline Bradley


It is not normally easy to disentangle yourself from a chain that one is tied with. The situation even becomes more complicated when you are not aware that you are under some external influence that is beyond your control. In order to break a spell therefore, you need to be a little bit cautious. Some wisdom is required to deal with such a situation.

The most common type of spell is that of relationships. When you fall in love with someone, you feel like they are the most entire beings in the planet such that you cannot do without them. In most cases, you become so vulnerable to them that they can mistreat you as much as they want. When the second party realizes that individuals are helpless before them, they can use this as a scapegoat to play with your feelings and emotions.

It is quite amazing to realize that someone has full control of your behavior such that they can move you either to the left or the right at will. To add salt to wound, it might be concealed to you while to others who observe you it is conspicuous. You then become defensive to the point of defeating the attempts of the people who are close to you tom reason with you.

The great ancient philosopher, Socrates, said one should know himself. This means that an individual should be aware of both your strengths and weaknesses. There is need for you to recognize all your areas of vulnerability so that you can prepare yourself prior to any trial. The biggest problem with most people is failure to accept opinions from other people. Although we are supposed to weigh them, its wrong to always dismiss them.

At times there is a feeling of self worth that comes to a person making them to behave as if others are lesser beings. This is risky as it makes others shy of helping us when they get the chance to. Those who observe us from the sides can be quite instrumental in making us more aware of ourselves. It is good to have open ears and closed mouths in some situations. The before you leap is thus a saying that comes handy.

For you to break a particular spell, always be willing to hear others out. Do not be the only one speaking. Instead, you better be the only one listening. There are cases where one has to persevere being ashamed for the sake of sobriety. Avoid being proud as it spoils chances of knowing the truth. Its a great show of wisdom when you humbly accept your shortcomings and correct them.

The second and crucial step is to take the necessary step, however hurting it might be. In most cases it is someone closest to you like your spouse who puts you into such situations. Through the freedom that you give them, they can make your life miserable if you are not careful. The decision might involve speaking the truth and stopping some evil acts that have been happening in the background.

Anyone should not brag since we are all vulnerable to a spell. Instead, each of us needs basic skills of breaking loose when the situation allows. Vigilance is mandatory. Positive thinking and deep situational analysis are vital to all of us. Learn to stand by your decisions.




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